She feels a powerful pull to be of service to her family, her community, her work in the world... and she understands that the deepest form of giving is not something she does for others; rather, it is something she radiates naturally when she has given fully to herself.
She has walked through the fire of giving at her own expense, and she's learned well that if she wants to lead a healthy and satisfying life, she must be willing to care for herself first, and then share from the overflow.
She models a life of freedom and self-respect, because this is what she wishes for all of humanity.